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How autism can impact sleep

Autism and neurodivergency can have a big impact on sleep. Here are some of the ways that sleep can become an issue.

How to support your neurodivergent child at...

Christmas can be a real challenge for neurodivergent kids and their families - here are some tips on how to make the holiday season a little better for everyone.

Pathological Demand Avoidance syndrome (PDA)...

Pathological Demand Avoidance syndrome can make toileting really challenging. This guide will help.

What is a “special interest” for autistics

"Special interest" is a very specific term in the neurodivergent community. Find out more about it here.

What is a meltdown?

Ever wondered what the difference between a temper tantrum and a meltdown is? This guide will tell you and help you understand how to manage meltdowns.

What is hyperfocus? What is hyperfixation?

Hyperfocus or hyperfixation are important terms to know if you're neurodivergent. Here's everything you need to know.

Potty time for kids with Down syndrome :

"The guide discusses physical, medical, and behavioral issues that can complicate toilet training children with Down syndrome and offers step-by-step instructions for teaching and motivating...

The Down syndrome nutrition handbook :

Using her knowledge and expertise as a registered dietitian and experiences as the mother of a son with Down syndrome, autism spectrum disorder, and celiac disease, Medlen blends intricate science...

NZ Down Syndrome Association

"The New Zealand Down Syndrome Association (NZSDA) has set itself the mission to Support, inform and advocate alongside people with Down syndrome, families, whānau and professionals. The NZDSA...

How to help children with Down Syndrome use the...

If your child has Down Syndrome they may have trouble with toileting. These challenges might be unique to your child and other children like them. Here are some tips to help support them.

Having a disability

"An inclusive and accessible picture book for children that explores what it is like to have a disability. The Questions and Feelings About... series encourages children to explore their emotions...

Early Intervention - How can I help my...

If your child needs early intervention therapies, the best place to start is at home. Here are some tips to help you support your child at home with early interventions.

Help! How can I teach my teenager that good...

Teaching your child good hygiene is very important for their health and self esteem. Here are some tips and advice for teaching good personal hygiene.

"It's ignorant stereotypes": Key stakeholder...

People with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD) and women who drink alcohol while pregnant can experience stigma, possibly exacerbated by stereotyped media portrayals.Method To understand...

A qualitative evaluation of caregivers'...

Points out that the effects of prenatal exposure to alcohol are wide-ranging and pervasive in nature. In response to growing concerns about the lifelong disabilities related to prenatal alcohol...

Adaptation in families raising children with...

Identifies and explores unique stressors that hinder family adaptation for parents raising children with FASD. Highlights one critical challenge that inhibits successful family adaptation for...

Adaptation in families raising children with...

Notes that there is limited research investigating the lived experiences of parents raising children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD). Uses qualitative analysis to identify how parents...

Caregiver and family quality of life for...

The current study provides increased understanding regarding caregiver and family quality of life, in families with children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder. This information was gathered...

Crips in Cars: Willie & Darya

Crips in Cars: The social experiment that celebrates differences. We chuck two strangers in a car and watch them connect through the simple act of conversation. Willie Waiirua is a social media...

Dan Dubovsky - Common Strengths of Students...

Dan Dubovsky talks about the importance of looking for and utilizing the incredible strengths our students possess. Corey Andrews: "I am enjoying Dan telling me about myself. I don't think every...

Developing inclusive practice for young...

"Written by one of the UK’s top experts in the field, this practical and informative resource explores the complex and compounding socio-cultural, historical and political factors surrounding...

Disordered: FASD in New Zealand, the...

The number of people in New Zealand with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) may be grossly underestimated. The call comes from health professionals, teachers and advocates for those with FASD,...

Educating children and young people with fetal...

"The range of learning difficulties associated with children who have Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD) has been highlighted as an emerging but little understood area of Special Educational...

Explained by brain :

"Dr Vanessa Spiller is a clinical psychologist and the parent of a young adult with FASD. She blends 20 years of clinical work with lived experiences to deliver practical frameworks and strategies...

FASD Hub Australia

Australia's FASD hub for health professionals, teachers, justice professionals, researchers, parents and carers.

Feasibility study of a family-focused...

Growing evidence shows that children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD) can benefit from interventions, and specifically interventions focused on improving self-regulation. The...

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

Being an adolescent male can be hard. But add to that an invisible disability affecting how you learn, how you think and how you behave… it can soon become a nightmare. Daniel and Jakob are two...

Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder

"An estimated 40,000 children are born with a Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder in the United States each year. The impacts on school and family, and social life are immense. FASDs are a group of...

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder - Care Action...

Providing support services to families and individuals affected by Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders :

"Fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASDs) have emerged as a major phenomenon within the education, health, criminal justice and social care systems of many countries, with current prevalence...

Fetal alcohol syndrome :

In 1973, psychologist Ann Streissguth was shocked by the lack of scientific documentation on the impact of alcohol on the unborn child. She sought to fill that void by dedicating her professional...

Fetal alcohol syndrome :

"Based on academic research, tells the stories of eight New Zealand women who gave birth to children suffering from fetal alcohol spectrum disorders. Describes the struggles of these women to raise...

Fidget!

"Strawberry and Cracker are twins with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome who live with their grandma and her dog, Thunder. The twins struggle with fidgeting. All children fidget, but a child with FAS...

Foetal alcohol spectrum disorders :

"This unique book has been written for those parenting children / young people with FASD (Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders) by Dr Mary Mather, widely regarded as one of the UK's foremost medical...

Forsaken:

Reports on Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) in New Zealand and backgrounds the documentary "Disordered: FASD in New Zealand".

Hidden needs :

Notes that there is little or no specific provision for children with FASD in the UK. Two experts provide a brief summary of some strategies that can be used by teachers and parents to help these...

Making sense of the madness :

Jeff thought he knew all about FASD until he started parenting a teenager with it! Jeff and his partner, Tara had been front line staff for many years and both felt they had the tools and...

Me and my FASD

This website is for young people with FASD. It has information about FASD and things that can help. It was created in the UK working with a very experienced team including medical professionals,...

My Brain, Me and FASD Interactive Comic

The all new, interactive My Brain, Me and FASD is here! Have some fun and learn about FASD Click to see a special interactive comic version of "My Brain, Me and FASD". It explains what FASD is, how...

My Perfect Family: The Cookie Project

In 2012, Hamilton couple Graeme and Chris adopted their foster daughter Ngā Hou - who was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and other disabilities. After Chris’s tragic death, Graeme struggled to...

Oli and the pink bicycle :

"It's Oli's seventh birthday - the first one since her new mamma and papa adopted her - and she's really excited about the present she has been promised. A pink bicycle! But Oli's special day...

Our FAScinating journey :

"Our FAScinating Journey, is an extremely valuable source of insight and intervention strategy for anyone working with a child or adult with problems related to fetal alcohol exposure. This book is...

Raising a child with foetal alcohol syndrome :

Observes that learning of a child's disability can be a difficult time for parents. In this study, families shared their experiences of raising a child with foetal alcohol syndrome. These were then...

Report says human rights breaches for people...

Statement by Paula Tesoriero and Judge Andrew Becroft follows the release of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder – A Call to Action, which calls for changes to the way people with FASD are assessed for...

Self-care in caregivers of children with FASD:...

Background Caregivers of children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD) have elevated levels of stress, which can negatively impact family functioning and caregivers' mental and physical...

The best I can be: living with fetal alcohol...

Tells the story of a teenage girl who has fetal alcohol syndrome. Describes the daily experiences of living with the syndrome from her point of view and from her mother's perspective....

The Strengths and Positive Influences of...

People with disabilities have not been adequately represented in strengths-based research. This study is the first to examine strengths and positive influences of young children with fetal alcohol...

The twins learn of their disorder

"The Twins Learn of Their Disorder is one in the Strawberry & Cracker, Twins with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome series. In the story, the twins’ recent medical evaluation resulted in a diagnosis of Fetal...

The Twins' Sensory Smarts

"Strawberry & Cracker are twins with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) who live with their grandmother. In The Twins’ Sensory Smarts, Strawberry and Cracker emphasize their sensory challenges and ways...

The Way I am is Different :

"In this children's book, a boy with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder is about to embark on his third grade year. The boy describes his anxiety, fears, and discusses his struggles from an honest...

Trying differently rather than harder :

"This book provides a readable, narrative discussion of the neurobehavioral approach for working effectively with children, adolescents and adults with FASD. After a brief review of the diagnosis,...

Understanding fetal alcohol spectrum disorder :

"This is the essential guide to FASD - the most common non-genetic learning disability, which is caused by alcohol consumption during pregnancy. It explains how FASD affects individuals at...

Understanding fetal alcohol spectrum disorder :

"This is the essential guide to FASD - the most common non-genetic learning disability, which is caused by alcohol consumption during pregnancy. It explains how FASD affects individuals at...

What is FASD?

To improve the educational success of learners with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum (FASD), we have to understand FASD. This eLearning module shares current research and explains the common language of FASD...

How do I help my FASD child at school?

Foetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD) can make mainstream schooling can be challenging. Here are some tips for helping you get through.

What is FASD?

Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD) impacts millions of children and their families. Here's your questions about FASD answered.

A Neuroinclusive Christmas

Looks at ways to make the holiday season more inclusive for neurodivergent people.

An autistic person's guide to an...

Covers how to handle societal and family expectations at Christmastime and looks at how to cater for sensory issues.

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger Teen's Toolkit

With minimal text and fun, comic book style graphics, this is a treasure trove of information for young people with Asperger Syndrome and their carers. Exploring the science of how the human mind...

The Asperger teen's toolkit

Dealing with the everyday realities facing teens with Asperger Syndrome, this book presents a toolkit of tried-and-trusted ideas to help them work through difficulties and find the solutions that...

Autism and toileting - how to help your child

Toileting can be especially hard for autistic and neurodivergent children. This guide outlines the unique challenges your child might face and how to help them.

Five tips to help you advocate for your...

Advocating for your neurodivergent child at school is so important. Here in the Awhi community we are lucky enough to have parents who share their wisdom on how best to support and advocate for children.

How can I help my neurodivergent child with...

This article outlines common causes of anxiety in neurodivergent and disabled children and what you can do to support your child if they have anxiety.

How can I help my PDA child thrive at school?

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is widely understood to be a profile on the autism spectrum that perceives demands as personal attacks. It is no wonder then, that many PDA children avoid going to school as there are few places more likely to be full of demands than a school!

How do I help my disabled child with their anger?

Learning to control your anger is a crucial skill. Here's a guide to helping your child manage their anger and find emotionally positive outlets for it.

What is stimming?

What is stimming? Find out what stimming is - and how to explain it to others who don't know.

Coping with Christmas when your child has...

Nicola Bond, mum to a special needs child, has some tips for helping kids with autism spectrum disorder get through what can be a really stressful time of year.

Supernourishment for children with autism...

"Full of simple yet innovative recipes, this book provides a comprehensive guide to keeping your child on the autism spectrum healthy through a nutritionally dense diet while addressing their needs...

Supernourishment for children with autism...

"Full of simple yet innovative recipes, this book provides a comprehensive guide to keeping your child on the autism spectrum healthy through a nutritionally dense diet while addressing their needs...

Autism NZ

"Autism New Zealand is here to provide services and support, education and information on autism for autistic people and family/whānau, caregivers, and professionals who engage with them." - website

Autistic children are more likely to be bullied...

Autistic children can face bullying at higher rates than neurotypical children. Here's how parents can help.

How to ask your carer if they’re vaccinated

If you're unsure of how to talk about vaccination with your carers. This guide will help. Here are scripts for asking your carer if they're vaccinated against Covid 19.

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

CARA's kit for toddlers :

"CARA's Kit stands for Creating Adaptations for Routines and Activities. In this approach, you adapt the environment, activities and routines so that all toddlers may participate as independently...

Cerebral palsy in infancy: targeted activity to...

"Cerebral Palsy in Infancy is a thought-provoking book which introduces a new way of thinking on the development and use of interventions. Relevant to current practice, it advocates early, targeted...

Child Development Centre, Te Whatu Ora/ Waikato

Summary of services and contact information for the Waikato Child Development Service

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora Health...

Contact information for the Child Development Service, Southland, Southern Te Whatu Ora

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora Health...

Child Development Service website, includes a description of the services available, an explanation of how family and whānau can work with the service, links to helpful online resources for family...

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora/Health...

Brief explanation of the Child Development Service, the type of specialists and their roles and contact information for the Service.

Child Development Service, Wellington Regional...

Overview of the service, the professional staff on the team and contact information.

Child Health, Te Whatu Ora Health New...

Brief overview of the service and submission forms for a referral.

Children’s Health, Starship, Te Whatu Ora /Te...

Information on children's health services at Te Whatu Ora Te Toka Tumai Auckland.

Community Child Health, Te Whatu Ora/Waitemata

Overview of Community Child Health and the services provided, including contact information.

DEC recommended practices :

"Guides the development and implementation of an effective early intervention/early childhood special education program for fully integrating research evidence with the everyday truths faced by...

Early childhood intervention without tears :

"This essay describes an enhanced Team Around the Child (TAC) approach that supports families in finding a workable balance between interventions for the infant and quality of life for the whole...

Early Intervention Every Day! :

"Effective early intervention doesn't stop when the provider leaves the family's home. That's why every interventionist needs this practical sourcebook, packed with research-based strategies for...

Foundations

UK website Foundations, a result of the merger between What Works for Children’s Social Care (WWCSC) and the Early Intervention Foundation (EIF) in December 2022, is dedicated to ensuring that all...

Early intervention practices around the world

Describes effective early intervention practices at work in 13 countries. Describes innovations in four areas: service delivery models, family support, professional development, and organisational...

Early Intervention Services

NZ Ministry of Education website explaining the Early Intervention Service (EIS), what support is available and how parents can access the service.

Early learning goals for children with special...

Provides suggestions for those working with children with disabilities to utilise play as a means of helping children to learn. Shows how to use each work area of the early years setting as a...

Family-based practices

"Addresses the topic of family-based practices describing specific strategies that will assist practitioners to collaborate with families in achieving the various components of the recommended...

Group play interventions for children :

"Group play interventions are used to meet a broad range of developmental needs in children from various backgrounds. This book is for mental health practitioners working with children aged 5...

Helping children to improve their gross motor...

"This guided curriculum offers a way to help children and young people aged 5-18 years. Activity worksheets provide instructions on how gross motor tasks can be accomplished through incremental...

Helping children to improve their gross motor...

"This guided curriculum offers a way to help children and young people aged 5-18 years. Activity worksheets provide instructions on how gross motor tasks can be accomplished through incremental...

Inclusion in the early childhood classroom :

"In this engaging book, the authors share stories from their practice and research about several young children with a variety of developmental delays and disabilities and their teachers. They...

Plunket Whanau Awhina

"Plunket is a charity and Aotearoa New Zealand’s largest support service for the health and wellbeing of tamariki under-five and their whānau. We offer free health and development checks, a 24/7...

Prevent-teach-reinforce for young children :

"Now early childhood professionals have their own guide to the popular Prevent-Teach-Reinforce (PTR) model—the research-proven, family-centered approach used in schools nationwide to resolve...

Quinn at school :

"Early diagnosis and early intervention are both important factors in the lifelong success of those diagnosed. Quinn at School is based on vignettes that reflect the social challenges (interacting...

Small steps forward

"When young children are diagnosed with conditions such as Down's Syndrome, autism, or other forms of developmental delay, there is much that parents can do to help. This new edition of the award...

Small steps forward :

"When young children are diagnosed with conditions such as Down's Syndrome, autism, or other forms of developmental delay, there is much that parents can do to help. This new edition of the award...

Teaching individuals with developmental delays :

Offers detailed descriptions of current programs and addresses the critical issues related to developmental disabilities for professionals of Special Education, Law, and Psychology. Covers: Basic...

The early intervention guidebook for families...

"Shows what early intervention looks like when it is based on current research and best practices. It focuses on how families and professionals can collaborate effectively so that young children...

The Power of Early Intervention :

Early intervention - tackling problems before they become more serious and more entrenched - is the right response to improve the lives of children, young people and the families, and to strengthen...

Whaikaha – Ministry of Disabled People

Brief description of Child Development Services and how to access them.

What is Early Intervention?

Early intervention means identifying and providing effective early support to children and young people who are at risk of poor outcomes. Effective early intervention works to prevent problems...

Working with families of young children with...

"This user-friendly book presents research-based best practices for serving families of children with special needs from birth to age six. Expert contributors demonstrate how early intervention and...

Early Intervention - What health services are...

Early Intervention Services (EIS) operates under Learning Support at the Ministry of Education - this guide outlines what services are available under the early intervention umbrella.

Early Intervention - What is available to help...

Early Intervention Services (EIS) operates under Learning Support at the Ministry of Education - here's everything you need to know about the service.

I know what to do when I'm feeling... :

Provides a guide to self regulation techniques when experiencing various feelings.

Our brains are like computers! :

"In what ways do people think about other people? Just like computers save and share files, people save and share their memories of one another. This highly visual picture book uses computer...

Our brains are like computers! :

"In what ways do people think about other people? Just like computers save and share files, people save and share their memories of one another. This highly visual picture book uses computer...

Socially ADDept :

"Decodes the often confusing rules of social behavior for all children Socially ADDept helps educators and parents teach the hidden rules of social behavior to children with limited social skills,...

Socially ADDept :

"Decodes the often confusing rules of social behavior for all children Socially ADDept helps educators and parents teach the hidden rules of social behavior to children with limited social skills,...

The Bear Cards - Feelings

"The Bear Cards are 48 colourful, friendly bears. Their magic lies in the way the engage people, especially children, and help them to recognise, identify and talk about feelings. The Bear Cards...

The choices game

"Designed to help older children and teenagers stay safe by learning how to make positive choices in social situations"--Container. This fun and interactive game helps to open up discussion and...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

How can I help my PDA child thrive at school?

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is widely understood to be a profile on the autism spectrum that perceives demands as personal attacks. It is no wonder then, that many PDA children avoid going to school as there are few places more likely to be full of demands than a school!

How do you home school a neurodivergent child?

Many parents of neuordivergent children turn to homeschooling when the mainstream education system doesn't work for their child. Here's a guide from a homeschooling parent.

Help! My local school does not want to enrol my...

Too many families in Aotearoa find local schools unwilling to enrol their disabled child – frequently schools say they have inadequate resources. All students are legally entitled to free...

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

1-2-3 a calmer me :

A young girl learns a technique for dealing with anger--and it works.

Anger management :

"This resource aims to support pupils who have difficulties managing strong feelings and managing their behaviour. It develops self-belief about the ability to change and equips pupils with the...

Anger management games for children

"This practical handbook helps adults to understand, manage and reflect constructively on children's anger. Featuring a wealth of familiar and easy-to-learn games, it is designed to foster...

Aroha's way :

"Come along on a journey with Aroha as she wards off nervousness, fear, worrying thoughts and apprehension, with simple, yet effective tools that everyone can use" - Back cover.

Autism :

"As anyone living in a family affected by autism will testify, children with autism can have a lot to contend with. While not naturally angrier than anyone else, the difficulties and uncertainties...

Autism :

"This book will show you the most common hygiene problems that autistic children face. And provide practical solutions that you as a parent can implement to teach personal hygiene to your autistic...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Cool down and work through anger

"It's never too early for children to learn to recognize feelings of anger, express them, and build skills for coping in helpful, appropriate ways. In this reassuring and supportive book, children...

Freedom from meltdowns :

"Daily meltdowns and tantrums are one of the biggest challenges of life with autism and related disorders. Now there's a book with the expert advice professionals and parents need to understand...

From anxiety to meltdown

"Anxiety is the root cause of many of the difficulties experienced by people on the autism spectrum, and is often caused by things such as a change in routine, or sensory overload. Deborah Lipsky...

From anxiety to meltdown :

"Anxiety is the root cause of many of the difficulties experienced by people on the autism spectrum, and is often caused by things such as a change in routine, or sensory overload. Deborah Lipsky...

High-functioning autism and difficult moments :

This groundbreaking technical approach to behavior delves deep into the root causes of contrary behavior in children with autism spectrum disorders (ASD).--Publisher.

Managing meltdowns

"Using the easy-to-remember acronym S.C.A.R.E.D. [Safe, Calm, Affirmation, Routine, Empathy, Develop a Plan], coined by the clinical psychologist Will Richard, this guide offers strategies and...

Managing meltdowns :

"Using the easy-to-remember acronym S.C.A.R.E.D. [Safe, Calm, Affirmation, Routine, Empathy, Develop a Plan], coined by the clinical psychologist Will Richard, this guide offers strategies and...

No more meltdowns :

"Offers parents and teachers strategies for preventing and managing meltdowns with an easy to follow, four step model that will improve everyday relationships with the children in your life." -...

What is a meltdown?

Ever wondered what the difference between a temper tantrum and a meltdown is? This guide will tell you and help you understand how to manage meltdowns.

Youth Law

"YouthLaw Aotearoa is a free community law centre for children and young people nationwide. We provide free legal services to anyone aged under 25 who are unable to access legal help elsewhere, or...

How can I tell if my disabled child is getting...

Want to make sure your child has an inclusive education? Here's what you should look into when choosing a school and what you can do in partnership with your school to improve the environment.

He Whakaaro :

New Zealand is committed to providing an inclusive education system, ensuring that disabled students are supported to achieve their potential, and can participate fully in society. To what extent...

He Whakaaro :

This report presents a summary of current knowledge regarding discrimination of students in New Zealand schools. It combines previously published research with new analysis undertaken using data...

IEPOnline

"Individual Education Plans Online – is for anyone involved in developing or implementing individual education plans (IEPs) to support students with special education needs. This new resource is...

Individual Plans (IPs) and Individual Education...

Provides information aimed parents on Individual Education Plans within the context of the New Zealand education system. Covers common questions - What's an Individual Plan (IP) or Individual...

Of course you can! =

Jeremy, a young boy who uses a wheelchair, is nervous about starting at his new school, but the other children encourage him to take part in their activities.

This is me

Meet George and his friends! This is me. I am George. My eyes are sparkly, just like my mum. Like my dad, I'm determined and brave, and like my sister, I'm full of FUN! This is Me celebrates our...

My friend Sam :

Points out that autism is not easy for anyone to understand so how do you explain it to very young children? Uses simple wording and delightful colour pictures to describe some of the difficulties...

I don't like reading

"Meet Harry, Harry likes to play football, climb trees, and hang out with friends, but Harry doesn't like reading. That is, until his teacher explains that Harry has dyslexia, which makes things...

The survival guide for kids with LD* :

"Kids with LD can learn--they just learn differently. Young people labeled with a "learning disability" or "learning disorder" will find a welcome resource in this fully revised and updated...

Finding my voice.

A two-colour graphic novel about speaking-up and standing out when you feel different. Perfect for fans of Raina Telgemeier How do you find your voice when everyone around you is telling you to be...

Accept and value each person

"The world is becoming more diverse, and so are the daily lives of our children. Accepting and valuing people and groups who are different from oneself and one's immediate family are critical...

You are enough :

"It can be hard to be different--whether because of how you look, where you live, or what you can or can't do. But wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same? Being different is great! Being...

Janine

"Janine is one of a kind. She focuses on the positive while navigating life with disabilities. She makes a difference just by being herself"--

Belonging :

"In Belonging: Rethinking Inclusive Practices to Support Well-Being and Identity, issues related to inclusive education and belonging across a range of education contexts from early childhood to...

Intellectual disabilities :

This leading textbook (previously known as Learning Disabilities) aims to further the practice of professionals and agencies who support people with intellectual disabilities. It emphasizes the...

Learning disabilities :

"This fifth edition has been fully revised and updated and is divided into eight sections: Understanding learning disabilities, Services and support, Independence and well-being across the life...

Learning better together :

"For the first time in New Zealand, "Learning Better Together" puts together a coherent picture of what we as disabled students, advocates, parents, teachers, principals, community leaders,...

Working with Māori children with special...

"Emphasises the importance of learning from the past and listening to Māori children, their parents and wider whānau. It explores the key components of culturally responsive, evidence-based,...

Working with Māori Children with Special...

Who are Māori children with special education needs? Why would working with them be any different to working with other children with special education needs? Why is this a highly important job--he...

Belonging for people with profound intellectual...

"This book pushes the boundaries in the way we approach people with profound intellectual and multiple disabilities, and in how we work with them in education and research. While it is grounded in...

Children's rights from international...

This book critically examines contemporary educational practices with a children's rights lens. Through investigating the factors that contribute to (or hinder) the realisation of children's rights...

Inclusive education :

Examines some of the key influences behind the moves towards inclusive education and inclusion in mainstream society. Features more than 50 extracts from key documents and classic texts, alongside...

Every child included

Aims to track the move to creating a more flexible continuum of provision for pupils with special educational needs (SEN) at the same time to comment on the complementary agenda that is unfolding...

The journey to a more inclusive education system

Explains what an inclusive education system looks like and the steps needed to get there. Talks to a range of people about their vision to make our education system more inclusive and accessible...

The long and bumpy road to inclusive education

"It has been 30 years since children with disabilities were given the right to attend their local schools, but they are still waiting to be included on the same basis as their non-disabled peers in...

Success in School :

Describes the two-day Success in School Course run by the Auckland Down Syndrome Association. Looks at the themes of the course - inclusion, learning profiles, behaviour and friendship, adapting...

School friendships

Looks at how the community at Pillans Point School have embraced Toby Wilson. Notes how Toby was introduced to his school mates and how the staff have modelled how to communicate, interact and...

Teacher aides an integral part of learning teams

Reports on research from the Education Review Office commissioned by the Ministry of Education and NZEI Te Riu Roa that shows teamwork between educators and teacher aides (TAs) empowers them to...

Unlocking the superpowers of neurodiverse learners

Talks to members of a group of students who are part of the Young Neurodiversity Champions; an initiative of the Neurodiversity in Education Coalition. The students discuss their classroom...

Te Kete Ipurangi, Inclusive Education TKI

Te Kete Ipurangi – the online knowledge basket – is New Zealand’s bilingual education portal. An initiative of the Ministry of Education, it provides New Zealand schools and students with a wealth...

Inclusive Education Action Group

"The Inclusive Education Action Group (IEAG) advocates for change in the education system. We promote knowledge, attitudes, policies and practices that facilitate inclusive education so all...

Ministry of Education, Inclusive Education

Find out about inclusive education in New Zealand schools, including your school's legal obligations. Our resources can help your school or early learning service support students with diverse needs.

NZ Curriculum Online, Inclusive Education

Practical guidance for teachers and leaders to help recognise, plan for, and meet the needs of diverse learners.

Education Review Office

"Receiving a quality education, from early childhood education (ECE) through to secondary school, positively affects how well all children and young people do at school and in life – from academic...

Being You – Roadtrip Nation

"1 in 5 individuals in the U.S. struggles with math, writing, focus, and organization—but many people with learning and attention issues feel alone. They don’t have to. Follow three young people...

All is for All

Pieces on the lived experiences of models working for the talent agency.

Help! My child is being bullied and I don’t...

It's awful when your child is being bullied. This guide will help you know what to do and how to help.

How do you get a teacher aide?

Does your child need a teacher aide? Here's a step-by-step guide to getting funding for a teacher aide.

What is an IEP and how do I do one?

Individual Education Plans or IEPs are usually requested by schools and the Ministry of Education. What are they and why are they needed?

"How bad should it be before I tell someone?" -...

This research explores how people with intellectual disability use the internet and how they experience and deal with online abuse. It also identifies gaps in the support and resources that are...

7 steps for whānau

"Netsafe is New Zealand's independent, non-profit online safety charity. Taking a technology-positive approach to the challenges digital technology presents, we work to help people in New Zealand...

An aspie's guide to bullying

"Bullying is a key daily stressor for people with Asperger's Syndrome and this ebook is packed with advice from Aspie mentors who have all been there, done that, and offer suggestions for coping...

Asperger syndrome and bullying

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Asperger syndrome and bullying :

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Autism, Bullying and Me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Autism, bullying and me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Bobby and Mandee's too smart for bullies

Bullies, Beware! This little book is going to have a big impact! In this moral-driven story, Mandee tells big brother Bobby how a bully took all her money. Bobby stresses that she needs adult help,...

Bullying :

Paddy-Joe Moran is a 20 year old author, blogger and co-founder of online advice service ASKPERGERS? He shares some advice on bullying; why it might happen, how to spot it and what to do if you...

Bullying : Hot picks from the Library 11

Phil talks about resources about bullying - including addressing isues online. He shows a number of books and refers to some great online information.

Bullying and ASD :

"Focuses on the tools needed to help children with autism combat bullying. Sadly, bullying has reached epidemic proportions in our schools, causing students both physical and psychological harm....

Bullying-Free NZ :

Bullying-Free NZ is an initiative from the Bullying Prevention Advisory Group (BPAG). BPAG is made up of 17 agencies, who collaborate and are committed to reducing bullying in New Zealand schools....

Cyberbullying :

"Children and teenagers text, network and twitter online as second nature, but when emails or texts are used to threaten, harass, intimidate or embarrass someone, they can turn from being a source...

Easing the teasing :

Teaches children and parents how to effectively deal with teasing and develop life-long coping skills. Provides strategies that give children the confidence and self-esteem they need to put an end...

Emily is being bullied, what can she do? :

Meet Emily. She is being bullied by a group of children at school. She describes how this makes her feel, think and act. Eventually, she finds ways to help herself and also realises that she can...

He Whakaaro :

This paper summarises what we know about bullying in the education system. Bullying has widespread implications not only for the students exposed to it (those who are bullied, those doing the...

Kidpower safety comics :

Even if your kids are not big yet, they have big powers. Mouth Closed Power. Stop Power. Walk Away Power. From 'The Trash Can For Hurting Words' to 'The Keep Telling Until You Get Help Story', this...

Kidpower safety comics :

"In this book you will find: Directions for adults on how to introduce "People Safety" to chilren ages 3 - 10. - Engaging social stories that teach children how to make safer choices and get help...

No more victims :

"The digital world offers a wonderful way to communicate and socialize with others. Yet, it is also rife with the dangers of being victimized emotionally, physically and financially. Trusting...

On the internet :

On the Internet: Our First Talk About Online Safety introduces children to the basics of online safety in a story-based, conversational style. Using real-world examples set within the context of a...

Ouch! moments :

"Explains 'ouch moments' in kid-friendly terms, offers practical strategies for what kids can do to help, and empowers kids to stand up to mean and hurtful language." - BOOK JACKET

Perfect targets :

“Perfect Targets provides helpful guidelines for administrators, teachers and parents. The tools are specifically designed/adapted for the challenges faced by students with AS. One of my favourites...

Risk factors for bullying among children with...

Extends the previous literature on bullying by identifying child-level and school-level risk factors associated with bullying in one of the largest samples of children diagnosed with an ASD across...

Social vulnerability and bullying in children...

Notes that children with Asperger syndrome have IQs within the normal range but specific impairments in theory of mind, social interaction and communication skills. Aims to evaluate factors that...

Stop bullying by taking charge of safety :

"In this book, you will find lessons with explanations, stories, skill practice coaching guides, and Kidpower Safety Signals about: noticing when bullying is happening, what you can do to prevent ...

Teasing isn't funny :

"Sensitive, narrative text from illustrated animal characters shows readers what emotional bullying is and provides possible solutions to stop it"--

The bully blockers :

"Tells the story of a boy who witnesses a classmate with autism being bullied and how he decides to get involved. Shows that one child can make a difference when he has the courage to stand up for...

Autistic children are more likely to be bullied...

Autistic children can face bullying at higher rates than neurotypical children. Here's how parents can help.

How do I keep my disabled child safe online?

Keeping your disabled child safe online can be challenging. As parents it's an incredibly important job. Here are tips for online safety.

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger Teen's Toolkit

With minimal text and fun, comic book style graphics, this is a treasure trove of information for young people with Asperger Syndrome and their carers. Exploring the science of how the human mind...

The Asperger teen's toolkit

Dealing with the everyday realities facing teens with Asperger Syndrome, this book presents a toolkit of tried-and-trusted ideas to help them work through difficulties and find the solutions that...

How do I get ORS funding for my child?

ORS funding can be hard to get and we get a lot of questions here about the process. We hope this guide will help!

How do you get a teacher aide?

Does your child need a teacher aide? Here's a step-by-step guide to getting funding for a teacher aide.

Are you traumatised by your child’s illness?

Parents of medically fragile and disabled children can face medical trauma just like their children do. Let's talk about what we can do to face that trauma.

Early Intervention - How can I help my...

If your child needs early intervention therapies, the best place to start is at home. Here are some tips to help you support your child at home with early interventions.

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

Explore Specialist Advice :

Our network of over 170 behaviour specialists are dedicated to working with parents, whānau, caregivers and residential care providers to improve wellbeing and quality of life for all, wherever you...

FASD Hub Australia

Australia's FASD hub for health professionals, teachers, justice professionals, researchers, parents and carers.

How to have a very nice solo holiday

Some tips about having a great holiday without friends and family.

Incredible Years Parent programme :

Incredible Years Parent is a 14-session programme for parents of children aged 3-8, which provides parents with skills to better support children, creating a positive home environment to promote...

Self-care in caregivers of children with FASD:...

Background Caregivers of children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD) have elevated levels of stress, which can negatively impact family functioning and caregivers' mental and physical...

Skylight Trust :

Skylight Trust supports people of all ages throughout New Zealand who are facing any kind of tough life situation, but specialises in grief, loss and trauma.

Women's Refuge.

New Zealand’s largest nation-wide organisation that supports and helps women and children experiencing family violence. Our vision is for all women and children in Aotearoa to live free from...

NZ Down Syndrome Association

"The New Zealand Down Syndrome Association (NZSDA) has set itself the mission to Support, inform and advocate alongside people with Down syndrome, families, whānau and professionals. The NZDSA...

How to find a support worker

There are many great carers. Here's a guide from a parent who knows on how to find the right carer to be part of your family.

Teacher aides an integral part of learning teams

Reports on research from the Education Review Office commissioned by the Ministry of Education and NZEI Te Riu Roa that shows teamwork between educators and teacher aides (TAs) empowers them to...

CARA's kit for toddlers :

"CARA's Kit stands for Creating Adaptations for Routines and Activities. In this approach, you adapt the environment, activities and routines so that all toddlers may participate as independently...

Cerebral palsy in infancy: targeted activity to...

"Cerebral Palsy in Infancy is a thought-provoking book which introduces a new way of thinking on the development and use of interventions. Relevant to current practice, it advocates early, targeted...

Child Development Centre, Te Whatu Ora/ Waikato

Summary of services and contact information for the Waikato Child Development Service

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora Health...

Contact information for the Child Development Service, Southland, Southern Te Whatu Ora

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora Health...

Child Development Service website, includes a description of the services available, an explanation of how family and whānau can work with the service, links to helpful online resources for family...

Child Development Service, Te Whatu Ora/Health...

Brief explanation of the Child Development Service, the type of specialists and their roles and contact information for the Service.

Child Development Service, Wellington Regional...

Overview of the service, the professional staff on the team and contact information.

Child Health, Te Whatu Ora Health New...

Brief overview of the service and submission forms for a referral.

Children’s Health, Starship, Te Whatu Ora /Te...

Information on children's health services at Te Whatu Ora Te Toka Tumai Auckland.

Community Child Health, Te Whatu Ora/Waitemata

Overview of Community Child Health and the services provided, including contact information.

DEC recommended practices :

"Guides the development and implementation of an effective early intervention/early childhood special education program for fully integrating research evidence with the everyday truths faced by...

Early childhood intervention without tears :

"This essay describes an enhanced Team Around the Child (TAC) approach that supports families in finding a workable balance between interventions for the infant and quality of life for the whole...

Early Intervention Every Day! :

"Effective early intervention doesn't stop when the provider leaves the family's home. That's why every interventionist needs this practical sourcebook, packed with research-based strategies for...

Foundations

UK website Foundations, a result of the merger between What Works for Children’s Social Care (WWCSC) and the Early Intervention Foundation (EIF) in December 2022, is dedicated to ensuring that all...

Early intervention practices around the world

Describes effective early intervention practices at work in 13 countries. Describes innovations in four areas: service delivery models, family support, professional development, and organisational...

Early Intervention Services

NZ Ministry of Education website explaining the Early Intervention Service (EIS), what support is available and how parents can access the service.

Early learning goals for children with special...

Provides suggestions for those working with children with disabilities to utilise play as a means of helping children to learn. Shows how to use each work area of the early years setting as a...

Family-based practices

"Addresses the topic of family-based practices describing specific strategies that will assist practitioners to collaborate with families in achieving the various components of the recommended...

Group play interventions for children :

"Group play interventions are used to meet a broad range of developmental needs in children from various backgrounds. This book is for mental health practitioners working with children aged 5...

Helping children to improve their gross motor...

"This guided curriculum offers a way to help children and young people aged 5-18 years. Activity worksheets provide instructions on how gross motor tasks can be accomplished through incremental...

Helping children to improve their gross motor...

"This guided curriculum offers a way to help children and young people aged 5-18 years. Activity worksheets provide instructions on how gross motor tasks can be accomplished through incremental...

Inclusion in the early childhood classroom :

"In this engaging book, the authors share stories from their practice and research about several young children with a variety of developmental delays and disabilities and their teachers. They...

Plunket Whanau Awhina

"Plunket is a charity and Aotearoa New Zealand’s largest support service for the health and wellbeing of tamariki under-five and their whānau. We offer free health and development checks, a 24/7...

Prevent-teach-reinforce for young children :

"Now early childhood professionals have their own guide to the popular Prevent-Teach-Reinforce (PTR) model—the research-proven, family-centered approach used in schools nationwide to resolve...

Quinn at school :

"Early diagnosis and early intervention are both important factors in the lifelong success of those diagnosed. Quinn at School is based on vignettes that reflect the social challenges (interacting...

Small steps forward

"When young children are diagnosed with conditions such as Down's Syndrome, autism, or other forms of developmental delay, there is much that parents can do to help. This new edition of the award...

Small steps forward :

"When young children are diagnosed with conditions such as Down's Syndrome, autism, or other forms of developmental delay, there is much that parents can do to help. This new edition of the award...

Teaching individuals with developmental delays :

Offers detailed descriptions of current programs and addresses the critical issues related to developmental disabilities for professionals of Special Education, Law, and Psychology. Covers: Basic...

The early intervention guidebook for families...

"Shows what early intervention looks like when it is based on current research and best practices. It focuses on how families and professionals can collaborate effectively so that young children...

The Power of Early Intervention :

Early intervention - tackling problems before they become more serious and more entrenched - is the right response to improve the lives of children, young people and the families, and to strengthen...

Whaikaha – Ministry of Disabled People

Brief description of Child Development Services and how to access them.

What is Early Intervention?

Early intervention means identifying and providing effective early support to children and young people who are at risk of poor outcomes. Effective early intervention works to prevent problems...

Working with families of young children with...

"This user-friendly book presents research-based best practices for serving families of children with special needs from birth to age six. Expert contributors demonstrate how early intervention and...

Early Intervention - What health services are...

Early Intervention Services (EIS) operates under Learning Support at the Ministry of Education - this guide outlines what services are available under the early intervention umbrella.

Early Intervention - What is available to help...

Early Intervention Services (EIS) operates under Learning Support at the Ministry of Education - here's everything you need to know about the service.

Are you traumatised by your child’s illness?

Parents of medically fragile and disabled children can face medical trauma just like their children do. Let's talk about what we can do to face that trauma.

Explore Specialist Advice :

Our network of over 170 behaviour specialists are dedicated to working with parents, whānau, caregivers and residential care providers to improve wellbeing and quality of life for all, wherever you...

FASD Hub Australia

Australia's FASD hub for health professionals, teachers, justice professionals, researchers, parents and carers.

How to have a very nice solo holiday

Some tips about having a great holiday without friends and family.

Incredible Years Parent programme :

Incredible Years Parent is a 14-session programme for parents of children aged 3-8, which provides parents with skills to better support children, creating a positive home environment to promote...

Self-care in caregivers of children with FASD:...

Background Caregivers of children with fetal alcohol spectrum disorders (FASD) have elevated levels of stress, which can negatively impact family functioning and caregivers' mental and physical...

Skylight Trust :

Skylight Trust supports people of all ages throughout New Zealand who are facing any kind of tough life situation, but specialises in grief, loss and trauma.

Women's Refuge.

New Zealand’s largest nation-wide organisation that supports and helps women and children experiencing family violence. Our vision is for all women and children in Aotearoa to live free from...

NZ Down Syndrome Association

"The New Zealand Down Syndrome Association (NZSDA) has set itself the mission to Support, inform and advocate alongside people with Down syndrome, families, whānau and professionals. The NZDSA...

How to find a support worker

There are many great carers. Here's a guide from a parent who knows on how to find the right carer to be part of your family.

Healthify He Puna Waiora.

The Healthify website, formerly Health Navigator provides one place for New Zealanders to find reliable and trustworthy health information and self-care resources.

Taking care of myself: a hygiene, puberty and...

Helps teach students with disabilities, and particularly those with autism, the necessary information and skills they need to live safe, healthy lives. Uses social stories to teach self-care...

The real reasons autistic people are stressed...

Your autistic family members, students, partners, friends, and co-workers aren't just the sum of their sensory or social differences. They're complicated, thoughtful, social, loving, respectful...

What to do if you're dreading a whole month at...

Suggests ways to plan for and deal with an extended stay with family over the holidays.

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

An exceptional children's guide to touch

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

An exceptional children's guide to touch :

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Boyfriends & girlfriends :

"Boyfriends & Girlfriends is for parents and professionals caring for adolescents and young adults with Down syndrome or other intellectual disabilities. It provides an entryway to discuss the...

Personal Space Camp

Although Louis knows a lot about outer space, the young boy finds himself sent to Principal Goodkid's office to attend Personal Space Camp after his teacher loses her patience with his behavior.

How can you strengthen bonds between disabled...

Here at Awhi we are often asked for tips on strengthening the bonds between disabled and non-disabled siblings?

My teenager wants to have a...

If you've ever wondered how to support my teenager with having a boyfriend or girlfriend, this guide is for you.

A sky of diamonds :

"When Mia learns that her mother has died, all the colour in her world changes to a dreary grey. She feels guilty, angry, sad and lost (sometimes all at once!), and she doesn't know what to do to...

Communicating with children when a parent is at...

"When a parent is nearing the end of life, children can feel like their world has been turned upside down, and they are often scared and confused about what is happening. Sensitive and clear...

Communicating with children when a parent is at...

"When a parent is nearing the end of life, children can feel like their world has been turned upside down, and they are often scared and confused about what is happening. Sensitive and clear...

Dealing with death

This sensitively written guide will help children to understand and come to terms with death and grief, whether they are dealing with the death of a loved one themselves, or whether they want to...

I miss you :

Explores the difficult issue of death for young children. Feelings and questions about this sensitive subject are looked at in a simple but realistic way. Written by a psychotherapist and counselor...

Is Daddy coming back in a minute? :

Alex and his father are on a boys-only weekend when his father has a heart attack. Alex finds someone to call the ambulance, but his father dies on the way to hospital. His mother comes to get him...

Is daddy coming back in a minute? :

Alex and his father are on a boys-only weekend when his father has a heart attack. Alex finds someone to call the ambulance, but his father dies on the way to hospital. His mother comes to get him...

Let's talk about when someone dies

When someone dies, we can feel a whole host of different emotions and explaining them to a child isn't so easy. This book uses clear, easy-to-understand language to answer complex questions about...

Something very sad happened :

A "tool for parents, caregivers, therapists, and teachers to help young children understand the concept of death and begin the process of coping with the loss"--Amazon.com.|Intended to be read to...

Starting young :

Argues that children of all ages experience grief and provides parents and caregivers of babies and young children with advice and information to help them support children and other adults around...

The challenge of change :

"Based on a resource developed by Trey Malicoat and Amy Morris called The journey of change published by Mother Oak's Child Centre for Grieving Children in Oregon, USA and adapted to meet the needs...

The grief book :

Gives young people the tools that they need to deal with emotions like grief, loss, anger and pain.

The Grief Centre

Website of the New Zealand charity that supports adults, children, and families/whānau with counselling, resources, support groups, bereavement support and community talks.

What does dead mean? :

"What Does Dead Mean? is a beautifully illustrated book that guides children gently through 17 of the 'big' questions they often ask about death and dying. Questions such as 'Is being dead like...

My child has lost their parent – what can I do...

Supporting a child with their grief is so important. Here's a guide to providing the right support to cope.

Anxiety :

Learn about anxiety, signs to look for, how your doctor determines if you have GAD and treatment options.

Anxiety NZ :

"Anxiety New Zealand Trust supports people living with anxiety and other mental health experiences. We offer specialist clinical services, ongoing peer support groups, educational resources, and...

Dealing with anxiety

This book will help you to understand what anxiety is, see how your mind works and learn ways to change how you feel.

Depression NZ

"This website helps New Zealanders recognise and understand depression and anxiety. We want to reduce the impact that depression and anxiety have on the lives of New Zealanders by encouraging early...

Helping your child with worry and anxiety

Hey awesome

If kids with anxiety could see their strengths, they would feel so much bigger than their anxiety. They would feel bigger than everything - as though a tiny, tip-toed stretch could have them...

Hey warrior

Kids can do amazing things with the right information. Understanding why anxiety feels the way it does and where the physical symptoms come from is a powerful step in turning anxiety around....

How to parent your anxious toddler

Why does your toddler get upset when his or her routine is disrupted? Why do they follow you from room to room and refuse to play on their own? Why are daily routines such as mealtimes, bath time,...

How to parent your anxious toddler

This accessible guide demystifies the difficult behaviors of anxious toddlers, offering tried-and-tested practical solutions to common parenting dilemmas. Each chapter begins with a real life...

Overcoming anxiety in children and teens

The key to this book is that it outlines both the science and art of anxiety therapy. The science of overcoming anxiety is using the well researched approach called gradual exposure therapy which...

Please explain "anxiety" to me! :

This book translates anxiety from the jargon of psychology into concrete experiences that children can relate to. Children and their parents will understand the biological and emotional components...

Relaxation guides for kids :

"Whatever your personal situation right now, meditation can help you to feel greater calm and inner peace. Instead of using your outer will to transform your life, meditation helps you to access...

Starving the anxiety gremlin for children aged...

Help children to understand and manage their anxiety with this engaging and imaginative workbook. The Anxiety Gremlin is a mischievous creature who loves to gobble up your anxious feelings! The...

Starving the anxiety gremlin for children aged...

Help children to understand and manage their anxiety with this engaging and imaginative workbook. The Anxiety Gremlin is a mischievous creature who loves to gobble up your anxious feelings! The...

Stay cool and in control with the keep-calm guru :

"This illustrated book introduces wise ways for children to recognize and cope with anxiety, anger, frustration and other difficult feelings and emotions. Using everything from yoga poses and...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The no worries guide to raising your anxious...

This two-in-one handbook will help you to understand your child's anxiety and how to ease it, while also showing you how to reconcile your own fears and worries that come with raising an anxious...

The no worries guide to raising your anxious...

This two-in-one handbook will help you to understand your child's anxiety and how to ease it, while also showing you how to reconcile your own fears and worries that come with raising an anxious...

Time Timers

New Zealand website selling timers that can help people manage their time better.

Worry-proofing your anxious child

If your child too often: seeks reassurance, invents illnesses, avoids interactions, avoids trying new things, becomes emotional over minor upsets, or is clingy, afraid to sleep alone, reluctant to...

Help! How can I prevent my anxiety hurting my...

Helping your child with their anxiety can feel like a full time job. And there's lots of info out there. This guide provides tips and advice and solidarity to help you help your child.

My Child is Anxious – But How Do I Know if they...

We all feel anxiety at times, including your child. This guide tells you how you can manage your child's anxiety and understand if it's an issue.

5 things only siblings of a disabled person...

Having a brother or sister can be amazing and frustrating in equal measure. But what's it like if you have a disabled sibling? Do you have an even more special bond? Are there unspoken truths that...

Growing up with a sibling with a disability

Looks at how being a sibling of someone with a disability can affect a child and suggests ways parents can help.

Siblings of children with disability: how to...

Key points: You can support siblings of children with disability by talking, spending time and problem-solving together. When children understand their sibling’s disability, it can help them...

How can you strengthen bonds between disabled...

Here at Awhi we are often asked for tips on strengthening the bonds between disabled and non-disabled siblings?

"How bad should it be before I tell someone?" -...

This research explores how people with intellectual disability use the internet and how they experience and deal with online abuse. It also identifies gaps in the support and resources that are...

7 steps for whānau

"Netsafe is New Zealand's independent, non-profit online safety charity. Taking a technology-positive approach to the challenges digital technology presents, we work to help people in New Zealand...

An aspie's guide to bullying

"Bullying is a key daily stressor for people with Asperger's Syndrome and this ebook is packed with advice from Aspie mentors who have all been there, done that, and offer suggestions for coping...

Asperger syndrome and bullying

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Asperger syndrome and bullying :

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Autism, Bullying and Me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Autism, bullying and me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Bobby and Mandee's too smart for bullies

Bullies, Beware! This little book is going to have a big impact! In this moral-driven story, Mandee tells big brother Bobby how a bully took all her money. Bobby stresses that she needs adult help,...

Bullying :

Paddy-Joe Moran is a 20 year old author, blogger and co-founder of online advice service ASKPERGERS? He shares some advice on bullying; why it might happen, how to spot it and what to do if you...

Bullying : Hot picks from the Library 11

Phil talks about resources about bullying - including addressing isues online. He shows a number of books and refers to some great online information.

Bullying and ASD :

"Focuses on the tools needed to help children with autism combat bullying. Sadly, bullying has reached epidemic proportions in our schools, causing students both physical and psychological harm....

Bullying-Free NZ :

Bullying-Free NZ is an initiative from the Bullying Prevention Advisory Group (BPAG). BPAG is made up of 17 agencies, who collaborate and are committed to reducing bullying in New Zealand schools....

Cyberbullying :

"Children and teenagers text, network and twitter online as second nature, but when emails or texts are used to threaten, harass, intimidate or embarrass someone, they can turn from being a source...

Easing the teasing :

Teaches children and parents how to effectively deal with teasing and develop life-long coping skills. Provides strategies that give children the confidence and self-esteem they need to put an end...

Emily is being bullied, what can she do? :

Meet Emily. She is being bullied by a group of children at school. She describes how this makes her feel, think and act. Eventually, she finds ways to help herself and also realises that she can...

He Whakaaro :

This paper summarises what we know about bullying in the education system. Bullying has widespread implications not only for the students exposed to it (those who are bullied, those doing the...

He Whakaaro :

This report presents a summary of current knowledge regarding discrimination of students in New Zealand schools. It combines previously published research with new analysis undertaken using data...

Kidpower safety comics :

Even if your kids are not big yet, they have big powers. Mouth Closed Power. Stop Power. Walk Away Power. From 'The Trash Can For Hurting Words' to 'The Keep Telling Until You Get Help Story', this...

Kidpower safety comics :

"In this book you will find: Directions for adults on how to introduce "People Safety" to chilren ages 3 - 10. - Engaging social stories that teach children how to make safer choices and get help...

No more victims :

"The digital world offers a wonderful way to communicate and socialize with others. Yet, it is also rife with the dangers of being victimized emotionally, physically and financially. Trusting...

On the internet :

On the Internet: Our First Talk About Online Safety introduces children to the basics of online safety in a story-based, conversational style. Using real-world examples set within the context of a...

Ouch! moments :

"Explains 'ouch moments' in kid-friendly terms, offers practical strategies for what kids can do to help, and empowers kids to stand up to mean and hurtful language." - BOOK JACKET

Perfect targets :

“Perfect Targets provides helpful guidelines for administrators, teachers and parents. The tools are specifically designed/adapted for the challenges faced by students with AS. One of my favourites...

Risk factors for bullying among children with...

Extends the previous literature on bullying by identifying child-level and school-level risk factors associated with bullying in one of the largest samples of children diagnosed with an ASD across...

Social vulnerability and bullying in children...

Notes that children with Asperger syndrome have IQs within the normal range but specific impairments in theory of mind, social interaction and communication skills. Aims to evaluate factors that...

Stop bullying by taking charge of safety :

"In this book, you will find lessons with explanations, stories, skill practice coaching guides, and Kidpower Safety Signals about: noticing when bullying is happening, what you can do to prevent ...

Teasing isn't funny :

"Sensitive, narrative text from illustrated animal characters shows readers what emotional bullying is and provides possible solutions to stop it"--

The bully blockers :

"Tells the story of a boy who witnesses a classmate with autism being bullied and how he decides to get involved. Shows that one child can make a difference when he has the courage to stand up for...

Autistic children are more likely to be bullied...

Autistic children can face bullying at higher rates than neurotypical children. Here's how parents can help.

Help! My child is being bullied and I don’t...

It's awful when your child is being bullied. This guide will help you know what to do and how to help.

How do I keep my disabled child safe online?

Keeping your disabled child safe online can be challenging. As parents it's an incredibly important job. Here are tips for online safety.

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

An exceptional children's guide to touch

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

An exceptional children's guide to touch :

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Boyfriends & girlfriends :

"Boyfriends & Girlfriends is for parents and professionals caring for adolescents and young adults with Down syndrome or other intellectual disabilities. It provides an entryway to discuss the...

Personal Space Camp

Although Louis knows a lot about outer space, the young boy finds himself sent to Principal Goodkid's office to attend Personal Space Camp after his teacher loses her patience with his behavior.

My teenager wants to have a...

If you've ever wondered how to support my teenager with having a boyfriend or girlfriend, this guide is for you.

1-2-3 a calmer me :

A young girl learns a technique for dealing with anger--and it works.

Anger management :

"This resource aims to support pupils who have difficulties managing strong feelings and managing their behaviour. It develops self-belief about the ability to change and equips pupils with the...

Anger management games for children

"This practical handbook helps adults to understand, manage and reflect constructively on children's anger. Featuring a wealth of familiar and easy-to-learn games, it is designed to foster...

Aroha's way :

"Come along on a journey with Aroha as she wards off nervousness, fear, worrying thoughts and apprehension, with simple, yet effective tools that everyone can use" - Back cover.

Autism :

"As anyone living in a family affected by autism will testify, children with autism can have a lot to contend with. While not naturally angrier than anyone else, the difficulties and uncertainties...

Autism :

"This book will show you the most common hygiene problems that autistic children face. And provide practical solutions that you as a parent can implement to teach personal hygiene to your autistic...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Cool down and work through anger

"It's never too early for children to learn to recognize feelings of anger, express them, and build skills for coping in helpful, appropriate ways. In this reassuring and supportive book, children...

Freedom from meltdowns :

"Daily meltdowns and tantrums are one of the biggest challenges of life with autism and related disorders. Now there's a book with the expert advice professionals and parents need to understand...

From anxiety to meltdown

"Anxiety is the root cause of many of the difficulties experienced by people on the autism spectrum, and is often caused by things such as a change in routine, or sensory overload. Deborah Lipsky...

From anxiety to meltdown :

"Anxiety is the root cause of many of the difficulties experienced by people on the autism spectrum, and is often caused by things such as a change in routine, or sensory overload. Deborah Lipsky...

High-functioning autism and difficult moments :

This groundbreaking technical approach to behavior delves deep into the root causes of contrary behavior in children with autism spectrum disorders (ASD).--Publisher.

Managing meltdowns

"Using the easy-to-remember acronym S.C.A.R.E.D. [Safe, Calm, Affirmation, Routine, Empathy, Develop a Plan], coined by the clinical psychologist Will Richard, this guide offers strategies and...

Managing meltdowns :

"Using the easy-to-remember acronym S.C.A.R.E.D. [Safe, Calm, Affirmation, Routine, Empathy, Develop a Plan], coined by the clinical psychologist Will Richard, this guide offers strategies and...

No more meltdowns :

"Offers parents and teachers strategies for preventing and managing meltdowns with an easy to follow, four step model that will improve everyday relationships with the children in your life." -...

What is a meltdown?

Ever wondered what the difference between a temper tantrum and a meltdown is? This guide will tell you and help you understand how to manage meltdowns.

Healthy anger :

How should we respond to a child's temper tantrum? To a teenager's sullen resentment? How can we help children and teens experience their anger without being overwhelmed by it? How can we deal with...

Little volcanoes :

"A handbook for parents and others caring for children"--Cover.

Mad dragon :

"This fast-paced therapeutic card game helps children ages 6-12: Control their anger in the moment; Practice 12 effective anger management techniques; Understand what anger feels and looks like;...

Some days I flip my lid :

"Teaching kids to be calm and cool with life's challenges becomes much easier when they learn they have choices in handling their emotions. Some Days I Flip My Lid follows third-grader Max as he...

Starving the anger gremlin for children aged 5-9 :

Help children to understand and manage their anger with this fun and imaginative workbook. The Anger Gremlin is a naughty creature and his favourite food is your anger! The more anger you feed him,...

Starving the anger gremlin for children aged 5-9 :

Help children to understand and manage their anger with this fun and imaginative workbook. The Anger Gremlin is a naughty creature and his favourite food is your anger! The more anger you feed him,...

Stay cool and in control with the keep-calm guru :

"This illustrated book introduces wise ways for children to recognize and cope with anxiety, anger, frustration and other difficult feelings and emotions. Using everything from yoga poses and...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

Train your angry dragon

"Andrew explains the unique problems involved in having a dragon for a pet--particularly the dangers that an angry dragon poses."--Publisher's description.

What to do when your temper flares :

"Guides children and their parents through the cognitive-behavioral techniques used to treat problems with anger. Engaging examples, lively illustrations, and step-by-step instructions teach...

When Miles got mad

Miles learns how to deal with his anger when little brother Max breaks his toy airplane.

When my autism gets too big! :

Written to help children, parents and teachers understand about the anxiety experienced by children with autism spectrum disorder. Offers suggestions about how the child might recognise 'anxiety'...

When Sophie gets angry :

"This thoughtful story addresses one of the most difficult challenges facing parents: what do you do when your child becomes angry? When a little girl named Sophie gets angry, she goes outside and...

How do I help my disabled child with their anger?

Learning to control your anger is a crucial skill. Here's a guide to helping your child manage their anger and find emotionally positive outlets for it.

"How bad should it be before I tell someone?" -...

This research explores how people with intellectual disability use the internet and how they experience and deal with online abuse. It also identifies gaps in the support and resources that are...

7 steps for whānau

"Netsafe is New Zealand's independent, non-profit online safety charity. Taking a technology-positive approach to the challenges digital technology presents, we work to help people in New Zealand...

Cyberbullying :

"Children and teenagers text, network and twitter online as second nature, but when emails or texts are used to threaten, harass, intimidate or embarrass someone, they can turn from being a source...

No more victims :

"The digital world offers a wonderful way to communicate and socialize with others. Yet, it is also rife with the dangers of being victimized emotionally, physically and financially. Trusting...

On the internet :

On the Internet: Our First Talk About Online Safety introduces children to the basics of online safety in a story-based, conversational style. Using real-world examples set within the context of a...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger Teen's Toolkit

With minimal text and fun, comic book style graphics, this is a treasure trove of information for young people with Asperger Syndrome and their carers. Exploring the science of how the human mind...

The Asperger teen's toolkit

Dealing with the everyday realities facing teens with Asperger Syndrome, this book presents a toolkit of tried-and-trusted ideas to help them work through difficulties and find the solutions that...

I know what to do when I'm feeling... :

Provides a guide to self regulation techniques when experiencing various feelings.

Our brains are like computers! :

"In what ways do people think about other people? Just like computers save and share files, people save and share their memories of one another. This highly visual picture book uses computer...

Our brains are like computers! :

"In what ways do people think about other people? Just like computers save and share files, people save and share their memories of one another. This highly visual picture book uses computer...

Socially ADDept :

"Decodes the often confusing rules of social behavior for all children Socially ADDept helps educators and parents teach the hidden rules of social behavior to children with limited social skills,...

Socially ADDept :

"Decodes the often confusing rules of social behavior for all children Socially ADDept helps educators and parents teach the hidden rules of social behavior to children with limited social skills,...

The Bear Cards - Feelings

"The Bear Cards are 48 colourful, friendly bears. Their magic lies in the way the engage people, especially children, and help them to recognise, identify and talk about feelings. The Bear Cards...

The choices game

"Designed to help older children and teenagers stay safe by learning how to make positive choices in social situations"--Container. This fun and interactive game helps to open up discussion and...

All about growing up

"This workbook has been designed for young people living with mild to moderate intellectual disabilities. It is for them to work through with a parent, teacher or caregiver. It deals with pubertal...

Amazing you :

Presents clear and age-appropriate information about reproduction, birth, and the difference between boys' and girls' bodies.

Autism friendly periods

Website of Robyn Steward author of "The autism friendly guide to periods" This link gives a short description of period underwear

AWWA Period Underwear

Commercial website of the New Zealand company that sells underwear, including teen period underwear.

Billy grows up :

"Billy Grows Up" is a short film about puberty designed to be watched by boys approaching puberty. It will help them understand the changes they will go through. It should be viewed with families...

Body Image Movement

Website of the Body Image Movement. The site includes background about the movement and the founder Taryn Brumfitt, as well as videos and information on BIM initiatives. From the website "Founded...

Female Social Story Books from Me Now

1. Booklet: Having a shower 2. Booklet: I touch myself 3. Booklet: My period 4. Booklet: Using the toilet "Me - a series of educational resources for people with intellectual and learning...

Growing up great! :

"Growing Up Great is a body-positive guide to getting through puberty confidently by respecting the body and all of its changes. From how to handle the physical rollercoaster to coping with...

Growing up guide for girls :

"The Growing Up Guide for Girls is a one-stop guide for young girls on the autism spectrum explaining all they need to know about puberty and adolescence. The pre-teen and teenage years are a bumpy...

KidsHealth :

New Zealand website that gives a brief guide to parents on the difference between normal sexual behaviour and behaviour outside the expected range in each age group.

Leroy learns about the big P :

"This unique young person's book has been developed by a very experienced NZ counsellor who needed resources to help explain the concepts of personal and private to young clients with a...

Let's talk about sex

"Let's Talk About Sex is a sexual health education programme manual for individuals and groups with intellectual disabilities. The manual provides a contemporary, well-structured programme covering...

Masturbation, Autism and Learning Disabilities :

"Intimate self-touch and masturbation can pose many difficulties for people with learning disabilities and/or on the autistic spectrum, particularly when it happens in public settings. This frank...

Masturbation, autism and learning disabilities

"Intimate self-touch and masturbation can pose many difficulties for people with learning disabilities and/or on the autistic spectrum, particularly when it happens in public settings. This frank...

Modibodi Period Panties

NZ website of the Australian company that sells absorbent underwear as an alternative to disposable hygiene products

More secret girls' business

This is a companion volume to "Secret Girls Business". In addition to information about periods [this book] includes details about physical and emotional changes. It will give girls greater...

Nest Consulting

New Zealand website. This link is to student question and answers about healthy relationships and sexuality

Private parts are private

Private Parts are Private reinforces the correct anatomical names children and adults should use for the private parts; and teaches children what they should do if they are touched inappropriately....

Puberty and special girls

"Provides practical information about growing up and will help girls understand the changes they will experience at puberty. It is easy to understand, includes excellent illustrations and offers...

Rainbow Youth

New Zealand advocacy organisation. From the website - "We work towards creating social change by providing support, information, resources and advocacy for queer, gender diverse, takatāpui and...

Secret boys' business

Secret boys' business assists boys to understand the changes that occur in their bodies during puberty and beyond.

Special boys' business

This book has been written for boys with special needs. It supports boys, their parents and carers through the changes experienced at puberty.

Special girls' business

Takes a girl and her carer step by step through the process of managing periods. Written for girls with special needs, including intellectual and physical disabilities, communication disorders and...

Taking care of myself: a hygiene, puberty and...

Helps teach students with disabilities, and particularly those with autism, the necessary information and skills they need to live safe, healthy lives. Uses social stories to teach self-care...

Tara grows up :

A short film about puberty designed to be watched by girls and young women before they have their first period. Should be viewed with families and caregivers, who can be on hand to answer questions.

The autism-friendly guide to periods

Written by autistic author Robyn Steward, this is a detailed guide for young people aged 9 to 16 on the basics of menstruation.

The autism-friendly guide to periods

Written by autistic author Robyn Steward, this is a detailed guide for young people aged 9 to 16 on the basics of menstruation.

The boys' guide to growing up :

"As a sexuality educator, I applaud Terri for tackling this crucial and sensitive topic in a simplistic and thorough manner. Parents, educators and boys with disabilities now have access to a...

The girls' guide to growing up :

"Puberty is a challenging time for all young adults. Now girls with intellectual disabilities can grow up with confidence, benefiting from this very clear, practical and honest guide." - Dr Brian...

The growing up guide for girls :

"The Growing Up Guide for Girls is a one-stop guide for young girls on the autism spectrum explaining all they need to know about puberty and adolescence. The pre-teen and teenage years are a bumpy...

Things Ellie likes :

"A simple picture book to teach girls and young women with autism or other special needs about masturbation and when and where it is appropriate. It also helps to introduce the concepts of public...

Things Ellie likes :

"A simple picture book to teach girls and young women with autism or other special needs about masturbation and when and where it is appropriate. It also helps to introduce the concepts of public...

Things Tom likes :

"A simple picture book to teach boys and young men with autism or other special needs about masturbation and when and where it is appropriate. It also helps to introduce the concepts of public and...

Things Tom likes :

"A simple picture book to teach boys and young men with autism or other special needs about masturbation and when and where it is appropriate. It also helps to introduce the concepts of public and...

When young people with intellectual...

"Written for parents and carers of young people with an intellectual disability or autism, this guide provides answers the questions that you may have felt too uncomfortable to ask before....

When young people with intellectual...

"Written for parents and carers of young people with an intellectual disability or autism, this guide provides answers the questions that you may have felt too uncomfortable to ask before....

Help! How can I teach my teenager that good...

Teaching your child good hygiene is very important for their health and self esteem. Here are some tips and advice for teaching good personal hygiene.

How can I help my child manage their periods?

Parents often ask us: How can I help my disabled and/or neurodivergent child manage their periods? We hope this guide is helpful.

How can I help my disabled child navigate the...

Puberty can be especially challenging for neurodivergent and disabled children. This guide will help you understand what is going on with your teen and how you can help.

How can I help my teenage child to develop a...

Body image and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) can be challenging for neurodivergent and disabled children. Here are tips for building positive body image with and alongside your children.

How can I support my teenager to explore their...

Supporting your teenager to explore their sexuality when they're disabled and neurodivergent is crucial. Here's how to do it.

My child is going through puberty - What is...

What is an intimate care plan? And how can it help your child?

My teenager wants to have a...

If you've ever wondered how to support my teenager with having a boyfriend or girlfriend, this guide is for you.

"How bad should it be before I tell someone?" -...

This research explores how people with intellectual disability use the internet and how they experience and deal with online abuse. It also identifies gaps in the support and resources that are...

7 steps for whānau

"Netsafe is New Zealand's independent, non-profit online safety charity. Taking a technology-positive approach to the challenges digital technology presents, we work to help people in New Zealand...

An aspie's guide to bullying

"Bullying is a key daily stressor for people with Asperger's Syndrome and this ebook is packed with advice from Aspie mentors who have all been there, done that, and offer suggestions for coping...

Asperger syndrome and bullying

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Asperger syndrome and bullying :

Combines personal life experiences of the author and others. Describes the negative effect bullying has on its victims. Outlines the reasons for bullying and the danger of persistent recurrence if...

Autism, Bullying and Me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Autism, bullying and me :

"It's not always easy to stand out from the crowd, especially if you're a teenager. There's a lot of information out there on how to deal with bullying, but a lot of it is contradictory or seems...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Be bully free :

"Seeking to empower children who are bullied, this book presents a wide range of common bullying scenarios, before giving practical suggestions on how the recipient can take control in these...

Bobby and Mandee's too smart for bullies

Bullies, Beware! This little book is going to have a big impact! In this moral-driven story, Mandee tells big brother Bobby how a bully took all her money. Bobby stresses that she needs adult help,...

Bullying :

Paddy-Joe Moran is a 20 year old author, blogger and co-founder of online advice service ASKPERGERS? He shares some advice on bullying; why it might happen, how to spot it and what to do if you...

Bullying : Hot picks from the Library 11

Phil talks about resources about bullying - including addressing isues online. He shows a number of books and refers to some great online information.

Bullying and ASD :

"Focuses on the tools needed to help children with autism combat bullying. Sadly, bullying has reached epidemic proportions in our schools, causing students both physical and psychological harm....

Bullying-Free NZ :

Bullying-Free NZ is an initiative from the Bullying Prevention Advisory Group (BPAG). BPAG is made up of 17 agencies, who collaborate and are committed to reducing bullying in New Zealand schools....

Cyberbullying :

"Children and teenagers text, network and twitter online as second nature, but when emails or texts are used to threaten, harass, intimidate or embarrass someone, they can turn from being a source...

Easing the teasing :

Teaches children and parents how to effectively deal with teasing and develop life-long coping skills. Provides strategies that give children the confidence and self-esteem they need to put an end...

Emily is being bullied, what can she do? :

Meet Emily. She is being bullied by a group of children at school. She describes how this makes her feel, think and act. Eventually, she finds ways to help herself and also realises that she can...

He Whakaaro :

This paper summarises what we know about bullying in the education system. Bullying has widespread implications not only for the students exposed to it (those who are bullied, those doing the...

He Whakaaro :

This report presents a summary of current knowledge regarding discrimination of students in New Zealand schools. It combines previously published research with new analysis undertaken using data...

Kidpower safety comics :

Even if your kids are not big yet, they have big powers. Mouth Closed Power. Stop Power. Walk Away Power. From 'The Trash Can For Hurting Words' to 'The Keep Telling Until You Get Help Story', this...

Kidpower safety comics :

"In this book you will find: Directions for adults on how to introduce "People Safety" to chilren ages 3 - 10. - Engaging social stories that teach children how to make safer choices and get help...

No more victims :

"The digital world offers a wonderful way to communicate and socialize with others. Yet, it is also rife with the dangers of being victimized emotionally, physically and financially. Trusting...

On the internet :

On the Internet: Our First Talk About Online Safety introduces children to the basics of online safety in a story-based, conversational style. Using real-world examples set within the context of a...

Ouch! moments :

"Explains 'ouch moments' in kid-friendly terms, offers practical strategies for what kids can do to help, and empowers kids to stand up to mean and hurtful language." - BOOK JACKET

Perfect targets :

“Perfect Targets provides helpful guidelines for administrators, teachers and parents. The tools are specifically designed/adapted for the challenges faced by students with AS. One of my favourites...

Risk factors for bullying among children with...

Extends the previous literature on bullying by identifying child-level and school-level risk factors associated with bullying in one of the largest samples of children diagnosed with an ASD across...

Social vulnerability and bullying in children...

Notes that children with Asperger syndrome have IQs within the normal range but specific impairments in theory of mind, social interaction and communication skills. Aims to evaluate factors that...

Stop bullying by taking charge of safety :

"In this book, you will find lessons with explanations, stories, skill practice coaching guides, and Kidpower Safety Signals about: noticing when bullying is happening, what you can do to prevent ...

Teasing isn't funny :

"Sensitive, narrative text from illustrated animal characters shows readers what emotional bullying is and provides possible solutions to stop it"--

The bully blockers :

"Tells the story of a boy who witnesses a classmate with autism being bullied and how he decides to get involved. Shows that one child can make a difference when he has the courage to stand up for...

Autistic children are more likely to be bullied...

Autistic children can face bullying at higher rates than neurotypical children. Here's how parents can help.

Help! My child is being bullied and I don’t...

It's awful when your child is being bullied. This guide will help you know what to do and how to help.

How do I keep my disabled child safe online?

Keeping your disabled child safe online can be challenging. As parents it's an incredibly important job. Here are tips for online safety.

An exceptional children's guide to touch

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

An exceptional children's guide to touch :

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

Bobby and Mandee's good touch, bad touch

Introduces the topic of sexual abuse, and how children can protect themselves. Includes questions to gauge the child's understanding, and tips for parents. Author and former Deputy Sheriff Robert...

Body safety book for kids

Nina experiences an invasion of her personal space and decides what action to take. Topics include personal space, body bubbles, appropriate and inappropriate touching, and steps to take when...

C is for Consent

As "Finn navigates a gathering of relatives and friends, his parents encourage him to make his own choices about whether to receive and offer physical affection. At the end, he uses the lesson he's...

Consent :

A child who has learned all about their body boundary and that they are the only person who gets to say who enters it is eager to share this information with others.

Disability and child sexual abuse :

"Examines the ways in which society marginalises, institutionalises and places disabled children in situations of unacceptable risk, and how - as evidenced in the survivors' narratives - patterns...

Handling disclosures of child abuse

Only a minority of children and young people actively disclose abuse. Most child abuse is disclosed accidently or though observation by an adult of a child or young person’s behaviour, words and...

Harrison Spader, personal space invader

"Harrison P. Spader sat a little too close. Shook hands a little too long. High-fived a little too hard. And hugged a little too much. Harrison P. Spader was a personal space invader. But that all...

How can I tell?: indicators of child abuse and...

Explains how to recognise the signs or symptoms of child abuse and neglect.

Information about harmful sexual behaviour

Explains what harmful sexual behaviour is, outlines the law in New Zealand regarding what defines harmful sexual behaviour and includes links to data and research on the extent of harmful sexual...

It's my body :

Your body is amazing! It can move, grow and heal as well as help you think, read and talk. Look after your brilliant body, from eating well to exercising and keeping clean. Respect your body and...

Let's talk about body boundaries, consent &...

Teaching young children about body boundaries, both theirs and others, is crucial to a child's growing sense of self, their confidence and how they should expect to be treated by others. A child...

Miles is the boss of his body

"On his 6th birthday, Miles's excitement is dimmed when he finds himself being repeatedly pinched, noogied, hugged too tight, picked up, and tickled by his well-intentioned family-- and decides...

My body belongs to me :

"Without being taught about body boundaries, a child may be too young to understand when abuse is happening--or that it's wrong. This straightforward, gentle book offers a tool parents, teachers,...

My body! what I say goes! :

"The crucial skills taught in this book will help children to protect their bodies from inappropriate touch. Children will be empowered to say in a strong and clear voice, "This is my body! What I...

My underpants rule!

A fun, easy way to teach children how to protect their private parts. Using a superhero theme, colorful illustrations and child friendly humor, it helps parents/carers/educators gently and...

Respect :

Your body belongs to you and you get to set your own rules, so that you may have boundaries for different people and sometimes they might change. Like when you hi-five your friends and kiss your...

Safety and Consent for Kids and Teens with...

"The developmental challenges of children with special needs means they are often more at risk of physical or emotional exploitation. This book provides invaluable tools to help parents, carers and...

Safety and consent for kids and teens with...

"The developmental challenges of children with special needs means they are often more at risk of physical or emotional exploitation. This book provides invaluable tools to help parents, carers and...

Support for child victims of sexual crimes :

"Summarises the types of support available for children (including adolescents) who are victims of sexual crimes in New Zealand and internationally, to help them recover from their experiences and...

Too close, too far, just right :

Designed to help children understand the concept of personal space.

A Guide to Good and Bad Touching for disabled...

Disabled, medically fragile and neurodivergent children can be at greater risk of sexual harm for a number of reasons. This guide will help you navigate important talks with your children.

Signs your child might have been sexually abused

Nobody wants to think about the idea that their child might have bee sexually abused. This guide will help you know if this has happened or not and what to do next.

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger children's toolkit

"Growing up with Asperger Syndrome (AS) can throw up all sorts of challenges, but never fear, The Brain Guru, The Sensory Detective and The Social Scientist are here to help! These likeable...

The Asperger Teen's Toolkit

With minimal text and fun, comic book style graphics, this is a treasure trove of information for young people with Asperger Syndrome and their carers. Exploring the science of how the human mind...

The Asperger teen's toolkit

Dealing with the everyday realities facing teens with Asperger Syndrome, this book presents a toolkit of tried-and-trusted ideas to help them work through difficulties and find the solutions that...

Intellectual disability and the right to a...

"One of the perennial political/philosophical questions concerns whether it is ever justifiable for a third party to paternalistically restrict an adult’s freedom to ensure their own, or society’s,...

Relationship building and sexual awareness for...

"STARS 2 is an adapted version of the original STARS guidebook that is focused of school-aged children. The STARS 2 model concentrates on four areas: Understanding Relationships, Social Skills...

Sex and relationships education for young...

"[This book] provides practical guidance for professionals working with, and parents or carers of, people with co-occurring autism and intellectual disabilities, on how to deliver and adapt sex and...

Sexuality :

Parents describe the joy and challenges of raising children with an intellectual disability. They offer advice and practical strategies to encourage self-esteem and appropriate behaviour, to...

Sexuality and intellectual disabilities :

"This book provides a concise overview of sexuality and gender identity in clients with intellectual disabilities for therapists, social workers, educators, and healthcare providers. It captures...

Sexuality and learning disabilities :

"This brand-new edition of our best-selling handbook, brings the topic fully up to date, with legal changes, latest approaches to supporting relationships and sexuality, plus the inclusion of...

The facts of life ...and more :

Gives social workers, teachers, and direct support professionals comprehensive information to educate people with disabilities about sexuality and help them make the best possible choices across...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Boyfriends & girlfriends :

"Boyfriends & Girlfriends is for parents and professionals caring for adolescents and young adults with Down syndrome or other intellectual disabilities. It provides an entryway to discuss the...

Personal Space Camp

Although Louis knows a lot about outer space, the young boy finds himself sent to Principal Goodkid's office to attend Personal Space Camp after his teacher loses her patience with his behavior.

How can you strengthen bonds between disabled...

Here at Awhi we are often asked for tips on strengthening the bonds between disabled and non-disabled siblings?

Inclusive Education - What is it?

We're sure you've heard of inclusive education. But do you know what it is?

1-2-3 a calmer me :

A young girl learns a technique for dealing with anger--and it works.

Does gratitude writing improve the mental...

Although the past decade has witnessed growing research interest in positive psychological interventions (PPIs), their potential as adjunctive interventions for psychotherapy remains relatively...

Gratitude Letter

How to guide to writing a gratitude letter.

How gratitude changes you and your brain

New research is starting to explore how gratitude works to improve our mental health.

Mental Health Foundation

The New Zealand charitable trust's website includes resources on all aspects of mental health.

Starting young :

Argues that children of all ages experience grief and provides parents and caregivers of babies and young children with advice and information to help them support children and other adults around...

Are you traumatised by your child’s illness?

Parents of medically fragile and disabled children can face medical trauma just like their children do. Let's talk about what we can do to face that trauma.

Help! How can I prevent my anxiety hurting my...

Helping your child with their anxiety can feel like a full time job. And there's lots of info out there. This guide provides tips and advice and solidarity to help you help your child.

How can I help my neurodivergent child with...

This article outlines common causes of anxiety in neurodivergent and disabled children and what you can do to support your child if they have anxiety.

How can I help my teenage child to develop a...

Body image and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) can be challenging for neurodivergent and disabled children. Here are tips for building positive body image with and alongside your children.

How do I help my disabled child with their anger?

Learning to control your anger is a crucial skill. Here's a guide to helping your child manage their anger and find emotionally positive outlets for it.

How long does it take to recover from your...

Sometimes even after our child recovers from surgeries and interventions we carry the trauma of it all with us. This is a personal essay about how hard it can be to let go.

My child has lost their parent – what can I do...

Supporting a child with their grief is so important. Here's a guide to providing the right support to cope.

My Child is Anxious – But How Do I Know if they...

We all feel anxiety at times, including your child. This guide tells you how you can manage your child's anxiety and understand if it's an issue.

A sky of diamonds :

"When Mia learns that her mother has died, all the colour in her world changes to a dreary grey. She feels guilty, angry, sad and lost (sometimes all at once!), and she doesn't know what to do to...

Communicating with children when a parent is at...

"When a parent is nearing the end of life, children can feel like their world has been turned upside down, and they are often scared and confused about what is happening. Sensitive and clear...

Communicating with children when a parent is at...

"When a parent is nearing the end of life, children can feel like their world has been turned upside down, and they are often scared and confused about what is happening. Sensitive and clear...

Dealing with death

This sensitively written guide will help children to understand and come to terms with death and grief, whether they are dealing with the death of a loved one themselves, or whether they want to...

I miss you :

Explores the difficult issue of death for young children. Feelings and questions about this sensitive subject are looked at in a simple but realistic way. Written by a psychotherapist and counselor...

Is Daddy coming back in a minute? :

Alex and his father are on a boys-only weekend when his father has a heart attack. Alex finds someone to call the ambulance, but his father dies on the way to hospital. His mother comes to get him...

Is daddy coming back in a minute? :

Alex and his father are on a boys-only weekend when his father has a heart attack. Alex finds someone to call the ambulance, but his father dies on the way to hospital. His mother comes to get him...

Let's talk about when someone dies

When someone dies, we can feel a whole host of different emotions and explaining them to a child isn't so easy. This book uses clear, easy-to-understand language to answer complex questions about...

Something very sad happened :

A "tool for parents, caregivers, therapists, and teachers to help young children understand the concept of death and begin the process of coping with the loss"--Amazon.com.|Intended to be read to...

The challenge of change :

"Based on a resource developed by Trey Malicoat and Amy Morris called The journey of change published by Mother Oak's Child Centre for Grieving Children in Oregon, USA and adapted to meet the needs...

The grief book :

Gives young people the tools that they need to deal with emotions like grief, loss, anger and pain.

The Grief Centre

Website of the New Zealand charity that supports adults, children, and families/whānau with counselling, resources, support groups, bereavement support and community talks.

What does dead mean? :

"What Does Dead Mean? is a beautifully illustrated book that guides children gently through 17 of the 'big' questions they often ask about death and dying. Questions such as 'Is being dead like...

Anxiety :

Learn about anxiety, signs to look for, how your doctor determines if you have GAD and treatment options.

Anxiety NZ :

"Anxiety New Zealand Trust supports people living with anxiety and other mental health experiences. We offer specialist clinical services, ongoing peer support groups, educational resources, and...

Dealing with anxiety

This book will help you to understand what anxiety is, see how your mind works and learn ways to change how you feel.

Depression NZ

"This website helps New Zealanders recognise and understand depression and anxiety. We want to reduce the impact that depression and anxiety have on the lives of New Zealanders by encouraging early...

Helping your child with worry and anxiety

Hey awesome

If kids with anxiety could see their strengths, they would feel so much bigger than their anxiety. They would feel bigger than everything - as though a tiny, tip-toed stretch could have them...

Hey warrior

Kids can do amazing things with the right information. Understanding why anxiety feels the way it does and where the physical symptoms come from is a powerful step in turning anxiety around....

How to parent your anxious toddler

Why does your toddler get upset when his or her routine is disrupted? Why do they follow you from room to room and refuse to play on their own? Why are daily routines such as mealtimes, bath time,...

How to parent your anxious toddler

This accessible guide demystifies the difficult behaviors of anxious toddlers, offering tried-and-tested practical solutions to common parenting dilemmas. Each chapter begins with a real life...

Overcoming anxiety in children and teens

The key to this book is that it outlines both the science and art of anxiety therapy. The science of overcoming anxiety is using the well researched approach called gradual exposure therapy which...

Please explain "anxiety" to me! :

This book translates anxiety from the jargon of psychology into concrete experiences that children can relate to. Children and their parents will understand the biological and emotional components...

Relaxation guides for kids :

"Whatever your personal situation right now, meditation can help you to feel greater calm and inner peace. Instead of using your outer will to transform your life, meditation helps you to access...

Starving the anxiety gremlin for children aged...

Help children to understand and manage their anxiety with this engaging and imaginative workbook. The Anxiety Gremlin is a mischievous creature who loves to gobble up your anxious feelings! The...

Starving the anxiety gremlin for children aged...

Help children to understand and manage their anxiety with this engaging and imaginative workbook. The Anxiety Gremlin is a mischievous creature who loves to gobble up your anxious feelings! The...

Stay cool and in control with the keep-calm guru :

"This illustrated book introduces wise ways for children to recognize and cope with anxiety, anger, frustration and other difficult feelings and emotions. Using everything from yoga poses and...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The kids' guide to staying awesome and in...

"Packed with simple ideas to regulate their emotions and senses, this book will help children aged 7-14 years tackle feelings head-on and feel awesome and in control!... There are also useful tips...

The no worries guide to raising your anxious...

This two-in-one handbook will help you to understand your child's anxiety and how to ease it, while also showing you how to reconcile your own fears and worries that come with raising an anxious...

The no worries guide to raising your anxious...

This two-in-one handbook will help you to understand your child's anxiety and how to ease it, while also showing you how to reconcile your own fears and worries that come with raising an anxious...

Time Timers

New Zealand website selling timers that can help people manage their time better.

Worry-proofing your anxious child

If your child too often: seeks reassurance, invents illnesses, avoids interactions, avoids trying new things, becomes emotional over minor upsets, or is clingy, afraid to sleep alone, reluctant to...

Intellectual disability and the right to a...

"One of the perennial political/philosophical questions concerns whether it is ever justifiable for a third party to paternalistically restrict an adult’s freedom to ensure their own, or society’s,...

Leroy learns about the big P :

"This unique young person's book has been developed by a very experienced NZ counsellor who needed resources to help explain the concepts of personal and private to young clients with a...

Let's talk about sex

"Let's Talk About Sex is a sexual health education programme manual for individuals and groups with intellectual disabilities. The manual provides a contemporary, well-structured programme covering...

Masturbation, Autism and Learning Disabilities :

"Intimate self-touch and masturbation can pose many difficulties for people with learning disabilities and/or on the autistic spectrum, particularly when it happens in public settings. This frank...

Masturbation, autism and learning disabilities

"Intimate self-touch and masturbation can pose many difficulties for people with learning disabilities and/or on the autistic spectrum, particularly when it happens in public settings. This frank...

My body belongs to me :

"Without being taught about body boundaries, a child may be too young to understand when abuse is happening--or that it's wrong. This straightforward, gentle book offers a tool parents, teachers,...

My body! what I say goes! :

"The crucial skills taught in this book will help children to protect their bodies from inappropriate touch. Children will be empowered to say in a strong and clear voice, "This is my body! What I...

My underpants rule!

A fun, easy way to teach children how to protect their private parts. Using a superhero theme, colorful illustrations and child friendly humor, it helps parents/carers/educators gently and...

Private parts are private

Private Parts are Private reinforces the correct anatomical names children and adults should use for the private parts; and teaches children what they should do if they are touched inappropriately....

Relationship building and sexual awareness for...

"STARS 2 is an adapted version of the original STARS guidebook that is focused of school-aged children. The STARS 2 model concentrates on four areas: Understanding Relationships, Social Skills...

Sex and relationships education for young...

"[This book] provides practical guidance for professionals working with, and parents or carers of, people with co-occurring autism and intellectual disabilities, on how to deliver and adapt sex and...

Sexuality :

Parents describe the joy and challenges of raising children with an intellectual disability. They offer advice and practical strategies to encourage self-esteem and appropriate behaviour, to...

Sexuality and intellectual disabilities :

"This book provides a concise overview of sexuality and gender identity in clients with intellectual disabilities for therapists, social workers, educators, and healthcare providers. It captures...

Sexuality and learning disabilities :

"This brand-new edition of our best-selling handbook, brings the topic fully up to date, with legal changes, latest approaches to supporting relationships and sexuality, plus the inclusion of...

The facts of life ...and more :

Gives social workers, teachers, and direct support professionals comprehensive information to educate people with disabilities about sexuality and help them make the best possible choices across...

When young people with intellectual...

"Written for parents and carers of young people with an intellectual disability or autism, this guide provides answers the questions that you may have felt too uncomfortable to ask before....

How can I support my teenager to explore their...

Supporting your teenager to explore their sexuality when they're disabled and neurodivergent is crucial. Here's how to do it.

My child is going through puberty - What is...

What is an intimate care plan? And how can it help your child?

"How bad should it be before I tell someone?" -...

This research explores how people with intellectual disability use the internet and how they experience and deal with online abuse. It also identifies gaps in the support and resources that are...

An exceptional children's guide to touch

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

An exceptional children's guide to touch :

"The rules of physical contact can be tricky to grasp, especially for children with special needs who are at a heightened risk of abuse. This delightfully illustrated and friendly picture book...

Bobby and Mandee's good touch, bad touch

Introduces the topic of sexual abuse, and how children can protect themselves. Includes questions to gauge the child's understanding, and tips for parents. Author and former Deputy Sheriff Robert...

Body safety book for kids

Nina experiences an invasion of her personal space and decides what action to take. Topics include personal space, body bubbles, appropriate and inappropriate touching, and steps to take when...

C is for Consent

As "Finn navigates a gathering of relatives and friends, his parents encourage him to make his own choices about whether to receive and offer physical affection. At the end, he uses the lesson he's...

Consent :

A child who has learned all about their body boundary and that they are the only person who gets to say who enters it is eager to share this information with others.

Disability and child sexual abuse :

"Examines the ways in which society marginalises, institutionalises and places disabled children in situations of unacceptable risk, and how - as evidenced in the survivors' narratives - patterns...

Handling disclosures of child abuse

Only a minority of children and young people actively disclose abuse. Most child abuse is disclosed accidently or though observation by an adult of a child or young person’s behaviour, words and...

Harrison Spader, personal space invader

"Harrison P. Spader sat a little too close. Shook hands a little too long. High-fived a little too hard. And hugged a little too much. Harrison P. Spader was a personal space invader. But that all...

How can I tell?: indicators of child abuse and...

Explains how to recognise the signs or symptoms of child abuse and neglect.

Information about harmful sexual behaviour

Explains what harmful sexual behaviour is, outlines the law in New Zealand regarding what defines harmful sexual behaviour and includes links to data and research on the extent of harmful sexual...

It's my body :

Your body is amazing! It can move, grow and heal as well as help you think, read and talk. Look after your brilliant body, from eating well to exercising and keeping clean. Respect your body and...

Kidpower safety comics :

Even if your kids are not big yet, they have big powers. Mouth Closed Power. Stop Power. Walk Away Power. From 'The Trash Can For Hurting Words' to 'The Keep Telling Until You Get Help Story', this...

Kidpower safety comics :

"In this book you will find: Directions for adults on how to introduce "People Safety" to chilren ages 3 - 10. - Engaging social stories that teach children how to make safer choices and get help...

Let's talk about body boundaries, consent &...

Teaching young children about body boundaries, both theirs and others, is crucial to a child's growing sense of self, their confidence and how they should expect to be treated by others. A child...

Miles is the boss of his body

"On his 6th birthday, Miles's excitement is dimmed when he finds himself being repeatedly pinched, noogied, hugged too tight, picked up, and tickled by his well-intentioned family-- and decides...

Respect :

Your body belongs to you and you get to set your own rules, so that you may have boundaries for different people and sometimes they might change. Like when you hi-five your friends and kiss your...

Safety and Consent for Kids and Teens with...

"The developmental challenges of children with special needs means they are often more at risk of physical or emotional exploitation. This book provides invaluable tools to help parents, carers and...

Safety and consent for kids and teens with...

"The developmental challenges of children with special needs means they are often more at risk of physical or emotional exploitation. This book provides invaluable tools to help parents, carers and...

Support for child victims of sexual crimes :

"Summarises the types of support available for children (including adolescents) who are victims of sexual crimes in New Zealand and internationally, to help them recover from their experiences and...

Too close, too far, just right :

Designed to help children understand the concept of personal space.

A Guide to Good and Bad Touching for disabled...

Disabled, medically fragile and neurodivergent children can be at greater risk of sexual harm for a number of reasons. This guide will help you navigate important talks with your children.

How do I keep my disabled child safe online?

Keeping your disabled child safe online can be challenging. As parents it's an incredibly important job. Here are tips for online safety.

Signs your child might have been sexually abused

Nobody wants to think about the idea that their child might have bee sexually abused. This guide will help you know if this has happened or not and what to do next.

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Ask first, monkey! :

"Meet Monkey. Tickletastic Monkey. He's the best tickler in the world, ever; even his mum says so. And there's nothing he loves more than tickling ALL his friends at playtime! But what happens if...

Boyfriends & girlfriends :

"Boyfriends & Girlfriends is for parents and professionals caring for adolescents and young adults with Down syndrome or other intellectual disabilities. It provides an entryway to discuss the...

Personal Space Camp

Although Louis knows a lot about outer space, the young boy finds himself sent to Principal Goodkid's office to attend Personal Space Camp after his teacher loses her patience with his behavior.

How can you strengthen bonds between disabled...

Here at Awhi we are often asked for tips on strengthening the bonds between disabled and non-disabled siblings?

My teenager wants to have a...

If you've ever wondered how to support my teenager with having a boyfriend or girlfriend, this guide is for you.

5 Ways to Support Your Child with ARFID

Caring for a child with ARFID can be challenging but here are some ways to help support them to lasting recovery!

A Diet High in Processed Foods, Total...

Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) is characterized in part by limited dietary variety, but dietary characteristics of this disorder have not yet been systematically studied. Our...

ARFID: Help, my child won't eat

A Q&A to introduce the topic of avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID).

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID)

"Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) is a new diagnosis in the DSM-5, and was previously referred to as “Selective Eating Disorder.” ARFID is similar to anorexia in that both...

Eat up, Gemma

"Baby gemma refuses to eat. She throws her breakfast on the floor, plays with her food, feeds her biscuits to the birds and even gives her dinner to the dog. But one day, her brother has a clever...

Eat up, Max and Millie

This is a delightful series for the very young, with simple, humorous stories encouraging good behaviour and good manners. This title deals with the issue of fussy eating and food refusal, and aims...

Eating well :

"This is an evidence-based report which summarises available information on the nutritional needs of children, young people and adults with learning disabilities. It also looks at issues around...

EDANZ :

"EDANZ is run by parents, caregivers, and people who have fully recovered from eating disorders. Although we don't have medical qualifications, we've experienced the challenges of eating disorders...

Feeding challenges in young children :

"Young children's feeding issues can be a complex challenge for early childhood professionals, especially since most get little to no training addressing this key developmental area. Now there's a...

How to talk to others about your child's eating...

"When a child has mealtime challenges due to special needs like autism, ADHD, sensory processing issues or other neurodiversities, they need support and understanding from everyone around them. But...

It's all about the food not the fork! :

"Imagine your'e not comfortable with cutlery, can't face a large meal, have reduced appetite, trouble with chewing or swallowing, are always on the move or have other things on your mind - an easy...

Macro- and Micronutrient Intake in Children...

Although case studies in avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) indicate severe nutritional deficiencies in those with a highly limited amount or variety of food intake, systematic...

Supernourishment for children with autism...

"Full of simple yet innovative recipes, this book provides a comprehensive guide to keeping your child on the autism spectrum healthy through a nutritionally dense diet while addressing their needs...

Supernourishment for children with autism...

"Full of simple yet innovative recipes, this book provides a comprehensive guide to keeping your child on the autism spectrum healthy through a nutritionally dense diet while addressing their needs...

The Down syndrome nutrition handbook :

Using her knowledge and expertise as a registered dietitian and experiences as the mother of a son with Down syndrome, autism spectrum disorder, and celiac disease, Medlen blends intricate science...

Top 10 myths of mealtime :

"We believe in helping others reach their full potential. We understand that having a picky eater presents an emotional and logistical challenge you want to face with compassion, empathy, and a...

What to feed an Asperger :

"Packed with essential tips and tricks for getting Asperger kids to eat a varied and nutritious diet, this book provides recipes for healthy meals given the Asperger seal of approval, as well as...

What to feed an Asperger :

"Packed with essential tips and tricks for getting Asperger kids to eat a varied and nutritious diet, this book provides recipes for healthy meals given the Asperger seal of approval, as well as...

Would my child benefit from Feeding Therapy? :

"All children can go through a stage of picky eating however some children become stuck and as a result have a limited diet. Here are some red flags which can indicate your child needs some...

Help! My child won’t eat!

It can be so distressing when your child won't eat. Here is a guide to help when your child just isn't eating.

Could your child have a sleep disorder?

Sleep disorders in children are more common than people think. Is it possible your child has one? Here are the symptoms...

How autism can impact sleep

Autism and neurodivergency can have a big impact on sleep. Here are some of the ways that sleep can become an issue.

How do I stop my child wetting the bed?

Bed wetting can be very upsetting for children and their parents. Having bladder control issues is common in children. Here is some advice and support.

What to do when you or your child can't sleep

What do you do when your child won't sleep? It can be so incredibly hard for everyone when you have a non-sleeping child. Here are tips for getting through.

A wee secret

Uses a story format to address the problem of bedwetting in children. Jet and Tui are friends. They both have a secret problem with bedwetting. But with a little help, their secret will soon be a...

A wee secret

Jet Johnson has a secret ... find out how he bravely gets the help he needs in this video adaptation of the book A Wee Secret.

Are you ready? a toilet training package.

Gives a step by step guide through the toilet training programme. Helps in establishing: if the child/young person is ready to be toilet trained; if the parent/carer is ready; goals to be set in...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Autistic logistics :

"This updated edition is based on Kate Wilde's decades of experience and the latest autism research. Tackling day-to-day issues and more, the book offers tried-and-tested techniques to help you...

Bobby can use the toilet

"This is a social story to help children learn to use the toilet. The clear text and illustrations will help parents and carers teach the toileting routine. The story of Bobby is intended to be...

Bowel and bladder assessment pack :

"Some children and teenagers with a learning disability, physical disability, autism or complex needs remain incontinent of the bowel and bladder. This has a serious impact on their self-esteem,...

Continence New Zealand

Home page of Continence New Zealand. "Continence NZ was established to provide a service to people with continence problems, caregivers, health professionals and the general public by providing...

Ellie needs to go :

"This visual resource helps parents and carers teach girls and young women with autism and related conditions about how to use public toilets safely. It covers the subtleties of social etiquette,...

Ellie needs to go :

"This visual resource helps parents and carers teach girls and young women with autism and related conditions about how to use public toilets safely. It covers the subtleties of social etiquette,...

ERIC, the Children's Bowel and Bladder Charity

ERIC provides expert support, information, education and understanding to children, young people and their families, enabling parents, carers and professionals across health, early years and...